Ah, the lazy days of summer are upon us. We have been laying pretty low, falling into a pretty set pattern of iced coffee from Tougo’s and neighborhood parks followed by nap times and quiet evenings at home. The regularity has been good. It keeps us getting out of the house, keeps us enjoying our time together, keeps presenting the opportunities to encounter friends and spend time with those in our community. Additionally, it keeps me motivated to stay moving as I am beginning to be more slowed down by the remaining bit of this pregnancy. Not to say it is unbearable, not yet at least, which is why I am thankful for our little routine. At the same time, I have purposefully been taking it at a slower pace, which has spurred me to find more creative ways to entertain and enrich the kids without taking on too much. Home playtime has become more essential and I have been brainstorming ways to start doing more easy crafts and activities around here. Thank goodness for the resources of the internet and other blogs. So far we have been having a grand old time with the Tutu’s as well as playdough, coloring and even some painting. If anyone has any more to share, please do pass them along my way. Mostly, I am amazed how well these kids entertain themselves, how well they enjoy playing together so independently and how creative they can be just on their own. I love to play with them, involved in their little imaginations and conversations. It is even just plain fun to watch them, even when all I feel like doing is laying on the couch, feet up feeling weary and heavy.
FREE movies
Every summer Regal theaters offer big-screen Family Movies absolutely FREE. Doesn’t get any better than Free, now does it? Each Tuesday and Wednesday morning for 9 weeks they show two G and PG rated movies. We plan to hit up the Veggie Tales movies being shown at the Theater closest to us, presuming I am still pregnant the weeks in August they are playing. This is a national program, so visit their Free Family Film Festival site to find a participating theater.
Willfully Sweet
She’s at an age where she has an opinion. On just about everything. She is well aware of her desires and will and she wishes to exert them. She knows what she wants and wants to choose. It used to be that getting something, anything, was rewarding enough. In those days I got to exert my will on her behalf. Like today in Cupcake Royal, it used to go something along the lines of: Oh, would you like a cupcake? We can get a cupcake to share. How ’bout that ‘Death by Triple Chocolate’ one? Ok. and She’d be tickled silly. Now Mommy’s Will must move aside for Araiya’s Will. Araiya wants the Vanilla one. With Pink Frosting. And very, very specifically the one right there in the middle with The Blue Flower. Yes that One. (Sadly that One didn’t last long enough to make it into the photo shoot for obvious reasons)
Yes, that right there is a Mother’s love for her child in action. Mommy has foregone her deep desire for deeply rich Chocolate cupcake (the only choice) in lieu of allowing Araiya to choose her Pink cupcake (which was shared by her, Tallis and myself). Tallis beamed happiness- Sugar! Frosting! Because she is at the stage where absolutely any cupcake would have been fine and dandy. Araiya too beamed sweetened happiness, but was more tickled that is was Pink! and had a Blue Flower! Because I guess that matters more now than the fact that she was consuming Buttercream Frosting. Yea, it was a good Cupcake. The blow was softened a bit by the fact I also purchased a dozen mini cupcakes for a Party I am going to tonight, so all in all, I will have my Chocolate-Chocolate-Chocolate in the end.
But just wait until I have three little girls, fingers and faces pressed against the glass, each pointing at a different cupcake in the display case- Mommy, mommy I want THAT one! and I will find myself forced into purchasing them Three separate cupcakes. When that day comes, I will have a more justified reason to get a Fourth-my very own Death by Triple Chocolate One.
Outfits
Araiya is my little fashionista, constantly on the move, constantly changing activities and clothes faster than I can keep tabs on her, suddenly appearing partially clothed or in new clothes completely within a few seconds flat. Yes, there is a fair amount of frustration on my part when she endlessly is stripping off clothing, discarding it all over the house and changing varying parts of her attire, often times in exchange for randomly obscure apparel. Lately she has been stealing my tank tops as ‘dresses’ and finding items that really aren’t intended to be worn as she adorns herself. I simply can’t keep up.
Outfit number 2 of the day yesterday. It actually looks pretty coordinated. Except that sweet black mini-skirt is a fleece neck warmer we use for skiing. And the white blouse is on backwards. And the hat is Matt’s Outdoor Research Cycling cap. The Mardi Gras beads are a nice touch, huh?
She has been begging for skirts recently. Begging to wear them every day. Currently she only has 2 skirts that fit her appropriately enough to wear in public. So I told her I would make her some new skirts, this is the first, equating to outfit number 4 yesterday. Simple drawstring waist made of cotton Ikea fabric. It took about 20 minutes to whip up. She loves it so much she actually wore it for the duration of the day yesterday. Paired with black leggings and a mustard yellow shirt from Cotton Caboodle. Not a bad combo.
Additionally I have a stack of fabrics in the sewing room awaiting their transformation into more skirts. In the hour we have been home from the coffee shop and hanging out with friends, we have had a meltdown over me not making her another skirt right away (needed to eat lunch first) and she has stolen a white tank top of mine out of the pile of clean clothes in my room bringing our number of outfits for today to 3.
Celebrate the 4th Downtown
Just a plug- if you are in the Seattle Area, Belltown is having it’s first ever Block Party, hosted by our Church and on the 4th of July, none the less. There will be a bunch of food from neighborhood eateries, kid’s stuff like face painting and I think a bounce house*, plus really great music and of course the awesome Fireworks Show that you will be right underneath**. Great way to enjoy the holiday celebrations in a safe and fun environment.
We’ll be there, so come hang out!
* an activity my kids will not be participating in due to the fact someone has convinced herself this is scary
**another activity we will be opting out of because loud noises are scary too.
Baby g.3 crafting
Slowly I have been able to get in a little bit of sewing time recently, which has served as a bit of therapeutic creative retreat for me. The above is a pattern from Ottobre- a newborn Kimono wrap made of soft white knit (recycled from an ill-fitting shirt of mine) trimmed in the purple Japanese fabric I purchased for the Cradle Bedding. It is still awaiting snap closures and, of course, Baby g.3 to be wrapped in it’s enfolding softness.
I also got motivated yesterday to make myself a nursing cover. Yes, three kids into this and I have never thought to get one. This was a very easy and quick project, far easier and cheaper than paying $40. I found the tutorial here, although I will admit I did some creative reclaimed material substitutions for the fastener ring on the neck strap (found this black buckle on the floor of the sewing room when cleaning up the other day) and the boning (strips of thick plastic packaging I cut down with an Olfa blade). Guess I should call that Adaptive Reuse. Also, I added a small corner pocket to store nursing pads, because I always loose those things in the time it takes the baby to eat then embarrass whomever finds it for me. This pretty much uses up the remainder of this awesome purple fabric, save a 5″ x 20″ scrap. Perhaps I am getting too matchy-matchy? Might have to make another one out of something different just to change it up ever once in a while.
Life with a Toddler :: Day 1037
Araiya this morning, as I am making her breakfast, notices her goodie bag from a recent Birthday Party in the upper cabinet of the pantry next to the Rice Milk.
“Oh, my CANDY. Want some CANDY? Mommy, I has some CANDY? It’s after Dinner, I have my CANDY now?”
Me: “No, sweetie, it’s morning time. No candy.”
Araiya, unfazed: “Oh, but Mom, I sleep all night. I go poop on the big potty and got all the liquids out of my body and I have some CANDY now? Yea, do that?”
Me, bits of cereal spurting out of my mouth as I attempt to stifle cracking up.
Araiya: “Mommy, why you laughing?”
Snippets of the weekend
Friday :: Cruised down to the MadCap Farmer’s Market to pick up our CSA Box from Oxbow Farms, filled with a plethora of greens and wonderfully freshly picked veggies. They also still had Tomato Starts, which we thought we had missed out on for this season because of our little hospital stay. So we ended up cruising into the neighboring Grocery Outlet to get some cash. We were wowed by the really cheap prices and ended up walking out of there with a random assortment of bread, Hershey’s Chocolate, Annie’s organic cereal and beer. Despite the amazement of how cheap things were (the organic shampoo I buy the kids was like half the price I pay at our local Co-op) the most notable purchase was the beer. We found SLO Brew Amber Ale, a small local Brewery from our little college town on the Central Coast of California, where we used to go drink pitchers and play Pool. Now even my parent’s can’t get SLO Brew anymore in Northern California since they scaled back there brewery operations several years ago, so we were pretty floored to stumble across it up here in Seattle, and at the Grocery Outlet, none the less. But wait, this is the best part: it was $3.99 a 6-pack. Yes, total score. Matt says he has plans to go back and “clean them out.”
Then to top off our little shopping spree, the guys at the Oxbow Farms stand gave us the Tomato plants. Now they are happily soaking up sun potted in the front yard. Weighed down with our extra hoards of bargains, Araiya passed out in the stroller, we trudged the mile or so home to Barbeque and use the Hershey’s for Frozen Chocolate Covered Bananas. For me, summer often revolves around eating, can you tell?
Saturday :: Headed South to a particular 3 year old’s Rocket Birthday Party, hanging out in the cool shade visiting while the kids played and ate Birthday sweets. Hard to tear ourselves away from good company and good friends, but we headed home for late naps, more deck and yard demo and dinner. Both days of the weekend we got above 80 degrees, which is so wonderfully warm. Except when you live in a house that doesn’t have insulation in the half of the house which bakes in the direct late afternoon sun as heat radiates and becomes trapped, sweltering and stagnant inside which makes for a miserable Mama who is suddenly painfully aware of her advancing state of pregnancy. Needless to say Saturday night I didn’t sleep very well, waking several times then finally around 3:30 couldn’t fall back asleep and eventually just got up about 5am.
Sunday :: Our usual Downtown excursion to go to Church, followed by a smoothie and snack at a nearby coffee shop. Home in time for naps, myself included, until we all became too hot in the house and were forced to escape. Tossing the kids into their swimsuits, we walked down the street to a nearby park with a splash fountain to cool off. What a welcome relief. Of course there were about 30 other kids who had the same idea we did, most of them older and rougher in their play, which was a bit intimidating to the girls. None the less, we all got plenty wet and headed back to our Oven for dinner and bedtime. We did end up turning on a large fan we had in the crawl space from when the basement flooded to at least move the air inside, which was a bit of a welcome relief last night. Today the plan is to get out of the house both before and after naps just to escape the heat build up. This is when I am beginning to lament the fact we currently have no useable outdoor space to migrate to in the afternoons. The shade of the fruit trees or a kiddie pool on a deck would be perfect for these summer afternoons. Soon enough, I guess.
Sun + Beach = FUN!!
Today we had our Beach Day. I only managed to snap a few shots while sitting, basking in the sunshine, on our blanket while Tallis had a snack. Otherwise I was too busy splashing and digging ‘moats’ in the sand with the Girls.
It was such a beautiful day. Summer up here is so wonderful. I am trying to take in as much as I can before the combination of new baby and the inevitable turn of returning cold is upon us. Ahhhhh…. soak it up!!































